What women want

Ok enough of the traversing down memory lane for now.
Fast forward to current day. I promise I will try to keep this blog more cheerful and lively.

So recently, I have been watching many a romantic movies. Mostly belonging to the sub-genre of romantic comedies. Yea yea I have been feeling all lovey-dovey and mushy recently, for some inexplicable reasons, which I will hopefully talk about in my coming blogs. So, on popular request, I am going to talk about "What women want". Now, I dont see any point discussing the storyline of the movie in detail, so I will just talk about the title and the thoughts that it provokes in my mind.

For people who havnt seen the movie, Mel Gibson(as Nick Marshall) who is womanizer of sorts, in a freak accident attains the ability to hear women's thoughts. My first reaction was "Damn I wish I could do that", no not to get into their pants, but to understand them better. But then I thought deeply about that and wondered, would I really want that to happen? Just reading a woman's personal thoughts to know what she likes/dislikes, wouldnt that take out all the charm out of life or out of trying to know a woman better? Wouldnt it make the getting to know a person part in a relationship non-existent? So I think I would rather come to know about my girl by spending more time with her, talking to her more and paying more attention to her choices.

The next thing about the movie that got me thinking, having the woman you are attracted to or are dating as your boss. Hmm...I honestly dont know how I would react to that, would my "male ego" come between the two of us? Will I be able to accept the fact that the woman I love is more succesful than me in my field of interested. When I think of it that way, it seems really intimidating to accept that, the feeling would always be there in my sub-conscious mind. But if I love her enough, maybe I will grow up and accept it.

So what do women really want? I have a bit of idea and I think its not a big secret, I mean everyone must be knowing this, its realy basic things. Women want to be loved, be respected and be happy. They are humans afterall, thats what we all want as human beings.
However, they have some needs that different from us men. I will try to list the ones I know of. -First would be communicating with the loved ones. I know women are much more vocal and more adept at expressing their emotions and feelings. Pointer to men- listen to what she says guys, sometimes she doesnt need your advice, she just wants someone to unload her feelings.
-Second, women want you to understand their needs without having to express them. It could be something as simple as giving her a hug to make her feel loved or telling her that you are there for her when shes feeling low.I know its very difficult for guys to understand this without women speaking their needs out loud, but hey! we need to give it a try.

Anyways, thats the only things I can think of right now. So here it is my personal guide on "what women want".